I am the mother of a tween. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, a tween is defined as:
As I reflect on my current state of motherhood as mama to my nearly 12- year-old Emma, the word that resonates with me is surreal. How did my first born suddenly transform into an almost teenager? She’s as tall as I am, and, we have been sharing shoes for the past six months. Equally as boggling is the idea that I am the mother of an almost teen! While I celebrated my 40th birthday this year, my internal identity is at a constant 28-years -old, the age I was when Emma was born. When I was in my early twenties, and envisioned motherhood, I often saw myself as the mother of a baby, or a toddler, or an eight-year-old, yet I rarely thought about mothering a teen. Hence, my present day-to-day with a tween in the house has a dream like quality to it. Emma will graduate from primary school this year, she’s desperate to dye the points of her silky blond hair blue, her favorite past-time is filming herself or her sister performing remakes of songs by artists I’ve never heard of.
And yet, she continues to hold onto the fringes of her childhood innocence. She enjoys having a snack after school prepared by mom, she is totally oblivious to her own beauty and she still solicits cuddles before falling asleep at night.
Luckily for us both, my tween hasn’t given up our ritual of bedtime stories. While we are no longer reading Beatrix Potter and Eric Carle, we do take delight in loosing ourselves in the pages of great novels read aloud before the lights are turned off.
We both relished The First Rule of Punk by Celia C. Pérez which just happens to highlight 12 -year -old Malu, in the midst of tween life. Emma loved the voice of Malú, one of curiosity, authenticity and sensitivity. As a mother, I appreciated reading a story with a confident girl main character to my daughter.
Regional/Cultural focus: The United States with attention to latino culture
Author: Celia C. Pérez
Genre: juvenile fiction
Twelve year old Maria Luisa (Malú) is beginning the school year in a new city. She’s not happy about the changes on the horizon, and she’s only mildly open-minded about attending a different school. Her father, who hasn’t made the move to Chicago with Malu and her mother, owns a record shop a thousand miles away. He and Malú share a deep love for music, especially rock. He reminds his daughter that the first rule of punk is, “always be yourself.”
Taking this message to heart, Malú embraces the challenges of being “the new student” at a delicate age. The reader discovers that Malú is fiercely independent, funny, empathetic, and a little rebellious. She loves designing zines, practicing music with her band, The Co-Cos, and skateboarding. As the novel progresses, we journey with Malú through her tween days, as she finds her voice (both literally and figuratively) and claims her own unique identity.
What I love:
- The zines that are woven through The First Rule of Punk are engaging, fun and innovative.
- Malú is an ordinary girl with an extraordinary spirit. She is a positive and real role model for tweens.
- Pérez incorporates Mexican-American culture and history into Malu’s story. We learn of Lola Beltran, a celebrated Mexican singer and explore cultural celebrations such as Dia de los Muertos.
- What kind of music do you like? Do you have a favorite band? What genre of music speaks to you? Why?
- Malú uses zines as a way to express herself. How do you express yourself?
- Do you ever feel that the rules are your school are unfair? Why?